Magic Tricks, R.O.U.S.s, and Happy Marriages

The Mormon and I went to the museum (where, incidentally, Milo works) to laugh at the R.O.U.S.s.  They’ve got a display of them eating a triceratops.  Their actual name is “therapsid”, but the ones the museum has created look very R.O.U.S.

We were standing outside on a bridge looking at the pond beneath, and I waved my hand over it–I can’t recall why, now–and suddenly there were all these ripples.  I said, “It looked like I did that, didn’t it?”

“It did,” The Mormon said.

So I waved my hand again and said, “Lucius!”  (A reference to a time when Cortney, Nicole, and I were being lazy and trying to make something happen with magic so we wouldn’t have to get up, but none of our spells were working so we just started calling out random things until “Lucius” finally worked.)

“Did you just say ‘Lucius’?” The Mormon said.

“I did.”  And I did it again, and again and again, because it seemed to be working.  And The Mormon pulled me away and said, “Okay, we’re going inside now.”  I tried to Lucius the pond a few more times as I was being dragged away, but I don’t think the fish could see my shadow anymore to react to it.

Then we went to FSCJ’s Deerwood Campus, because I really wanted to know what a shopping-mall-turned-college-campus looked like on the inside.  (It looks like a shopping mall.  It even has escalators.)

It was so cute–he wouldn’t tell me where we were going, just how to get there.  He wanted to surprise me.  It was very cute.

We then met up with my old friend Wendy and her husband for sushi.  I wrote an entry about them some months ago, though I can’t remember where it is, in which I was stressing because I had this belief that marriage never works out.  They were going through problems at the time.  But they appear to have worked out their issues, and now, even though they’ve been married for six years, they’re still every bit as affectionate as The Mormon and me.  That makes me feel really good, because I think that’s how we are going to be.  It just shows that it can last, and I think we can make it last.

It was also nice to, for once, be hanging out with another couple who wouldn’t bitch at us for kissing in public because they were too busy kissing, themselves.

Classes are going okay.  I keep up with my homework every night, at least thus far.  I’ve really got to raise my GPA, because I don’t know what it is anymore, but I know it isn’t high enough.

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Cortney Graduates and Costume Updates

Being now finished with as much homework as I can conceivably do tonight, I shall take these next few moments as I wait on my laundry to write about my Mormon.  He and Nicole and I went down to Orlando for Cortney’s graduation–yes, Cortney has actually finished with school, and much congratulations to her!–and we were able to sleep in the same bed together all night long for what could quite possibly be the only time for the next two years, which is when I hope to move out and he has to move out.

I actually finished my homework today.  It’s amazing; I’d been behind since Monday.  An entire week.  And tomorrow there will be more again–but from now on I’m doing the day’s homework that day no matter what, and I will not fall behind.

So the costumes are coming along.  My Aunt Dianne is making The Mormon’s shirt and vest, and Adrianna’s roommate Jen only has a few more things to do on the fabric-y parts of mine, and Michelle and I have a couple more items to buy, and then she can get to work.  Everything is in motion.  It’s very exciting; I look forward to seeing how they will come out.

Even now, months later, I still have new stories about The Bad Date.

This is just unbelievable.  Remember The Bad Date?  So Monica and Lisa went back to the Jax Alehouse the other night to meet up with Wesley, the cute waiter (which didn’t work out)–and The Bad Date, of course, was there.  Now, I was not there, so I got this story second-hand; therefore, if there are any mistakes or discrepancies in it, I blame them on that.  But I will try to be as accurate as possible.

At first, Monica and our friend Michael, who used to be friends with The Bad Date (he isn’t after this most recent incident; although I have trouble figuring out how he still managed to remain friends with him after hearing about the date to begin with) were playing some DeerHunter video game thing.  The Bad Date came in and stood behind them and made comments about ways Monica could improve her playing (because she admittedly was not doing very well).  When the thing came up for her to put her initials in, she somehow put in, “CCM” instead of her actual initials, and The Bad Date commented eloquently, “That looks like ‘cum’.”

Cum?” Monica repeated, disgusted.

“Oh, I love the way you say that,” he said.  Does this guy not just get more and more unbelievable the more you hear about him?

Later, he went to the bathroom, and then Michael followed a minute later (this was uncoordinated; apparently guys don’t operate in the same sly ways as females).  They did, however, walk out together, and Michael reported the conversation thusly:

The Bad Date commented that Monica was really hot.  He said she was kind of short, but he could work with that.  He then asked whether Michael thought he should give Monica his phone number.  Michael replied that it would not be a good idea because Monica only likes Filipino guys.  (This is a blatant lie; in fact, Monica, despite being Filipino herself, prefers white guys.)

But The Bad Date, of course, paid no heed, and went to his table, grabbed a napkin, and started writing on it.

“What the hell is he doing?” Lisa said.

“I don’t know,” Monica said.

They found out a moment later when The Bad Date moved over to their table and slid the napkin (which read something along the lines of, “Hey, call me sometime” and his number) over to Monica.

Monica pretended not to see and slid a bit further away.

The Bad Date pushed the napkin closer to Monica still.

Monica, still pretending not to see, planted her elbow right on top of it and continued talking to somebody in the other direction.

The Bad Date got up, came over to Monica, tapped her on the elbow, and handed her the napkin.

“Yeah, I got it, thanks,” she said coldly (or at least, so it came out when she was telling me the story–I hope that’s how she said it to him, because it was funny).

He then asked her if she ever went to Ruby Tuesday.

“I used to go all the time, but I haven’t been in over a year,” (for obvious reasons), she told him.

“Did you ever go in there with two girls?” he said.

Monica exchanged a meaningful glance at Lisa and said, “I’m sure I did.”

“Was one of them a girl named Ginny with glasses?”

She said truthfully, “I don’t have a friend named Ginny who wears glasses.”  And I do, in fact, wear contacts now.

“Oh,” he said, “it must have been somebody else.  You just reminded me of someone.”

Now keep in mind, I was there about two weeks ago, and he definitely saw me more than once with them, and he kept staring at us.  He definitely knows.  He’s known all along.  But he won’t come right out and say it.

The Bad Date then took Michael to the pool tables to point out his fuckbuddy, who seemed to want nothing to do with him and even flirted with Michael right in front of him.  The Bad Date then poured out his entire sexual history to Michael (this was not extensive, as I cannot imagine there are many girls out there who would actually want to have sex with him).

As they were leaving, he kept trying to say good-bye to Monica, who kept trying not to say good-bye to him.  So finally he flicked her hair playfully (*shudder*) and walked away.

I told The Mormon I am never returning to the Alehouse unless he is there with me.

“I can do that, babe,” he said.  “I will be there to kiss you right in front of him.”

“Good,” I said.

“Maybe not an open-mouthed kiss….”

“It had better be an open-mouthed kiss!”

He laughed.  “Well, then an open-mouthed kiss.”

So I’ll go back if he is with me.  I wonder if The Bad Date would approach us.  I played this whole scene out in my head where he tried to approach us and inform The Mormon that I was cheating on him with Gary–that he saw us (my gay friend who was pretending to be my boyfriend because The Mormon couldn’t go with us that day).  I could see him doing something really dickish like that.  I don’t know that he would be afraid to come up to us; after this latest incident, I think if he saw me again, with or without a guy, he would try something.

I told my mom this latest story, leaving out the most sexually perverse details, and she said, “Poor guy.”  My mom’s thinking baffles me sometimes.  How she can feel sorry for the freakiest of freaks…I guess it’s sweet, but still.  She always takes the side of people who have been harassing/stalking me instead of mine, and it’s kind of hurtful, to be honest.

Who knows where this could lead?

Trying To Calm Down

So I’ve calmed down a great deal since my last update.  I can’t say I won’t be driven nearly to tears in the parking lot each morning, but I’m feeling better.  First of all, the school owes me like $1300 something, so that’s awesome.  The Mormon will be able to come with us this weekend so I don’t have to worry about not seeing him again for another entire week–even better.  I think I’m actually going to like all of my classes.  I applied for the school paper, which I know I don’t have time for, but…well, I can set aside some homework.  I’ll be okay with a slightly lower grade if I can be on the paper and getting experience in the field I’m headed for.

When I called The Mormon yesterday, I was kind of telling him about my day, and then I threw in, “Oh, and I joined a sorority.”

There was a pause.  And then, “What!?” he said.

“No, I’m just kidding.  I would never do that; I just thought your reaction would be funny.  But I did apply for the school paper.”

Last night when we were talking during our nightly…like twenty minutes, because I’m still swamped with homework…I was telling him that the costume is coming along, but because we are encountering more difficulties than expected, it will be more like the essence of Slave Leia.  And he replied:

“That’s okay.  I am sure it will be hot; anyone that says different can answer to my Wookiee.”

I laughed very hard and said that was going in the blog, and he said, “Some nights I come up with these great lines.  Other times, people must read your blog and think that I’m some sort of unwitty troglodite.”

I love my Mormon.

Fucking Stressors

I’m stressed almost to the breaking point.  It’s been a long time since I was in school full-time and work part-time on the side.  I’d forgotten how completely hectic it is.  I don’t like being on campus for nine or ten hours with little to no break and then coming home completely exhausted with a headache and having to do homework until I fall asleep.  I don’t like that it is the second week of school and I already have so much homework from all four classes that I’m falling behind.  I don’t like arriving on campus at 10:47 and then not being able to park until 11:37.  I don’t like that I never see The Mormon and that I can only talk to him for a couple minutes at night because I have to do my homework.  I’m so fucking stressed.  Even though I’m already a year behind where I am now supposed to be, I’ve been thinking about dropping a class, so I’ll have less homework and more time to do it.

Know what I just realized?  The last semester that I was in school full-time wasn’t full-time.  I was only taking three classes then.  I haven’t had four classes plus work since…well, not summer, so…April.  That’s a year and four months.  Fuck me.

It was a good thing I found a parking space when I did yesterday, because I was about to just pull into some pseudo-spot to rest for a while and cry onto my steering wheel or call the first person I could reach to scream at them.

I started falling asleep standing up at work last night and then comforted myself with the thought that I could come home and rest, until I remembered how much homework I had.  I’m not finished with it now; I’m taking a brief break from it to focus on my mental well-being.

At one point when I was feeling completely miserable, I thought about The Mormon and felt way better until I realized I wouldn’t see him until, very likely, next Saturday.  I have to work next Friday because Michelle can’t make it.  And I go crazy working six days a week.  I can’t see a rest coming for a matter of weeks.  That, I think, kills me the most.

I’m broke, but I won’t be paid for another three weeks.  Two and a half now, I guess.

The Mormon told me he bought me a rose and attempted to bring it to my work, but after driving around the parking lot for 45 minutes with his a/c-less car, he just gave up and went home.  That is so sad.  He couldn’t get in to see me even if he had time.

I feel so constricted.

On a rather lighter note, The Mormon told me L’Owen was teasing him in class when he said he doesn’t like romantic comedies.

“Dean is in a romance right now,” he said.  “In fact, he met her in my creative writing class!”  Haha…I can hear him saying it.

My class is at noon, but I’m leaving in half an hour to try and get parking.

L’Owen Called Me A Babe

L’Owen called me a babe.  This is the most exciting thing that happened today.  When I called The Mormon between class and work earlier, he told me he’d talked to L’Owen, who asked him if he was still seeing “that babe”; The Mormon informed him that he is, in fact.  And L’Owen asked him very excitedly whether he thought it was going to last, and The Mormon said he thinks so, and that we have discussed it, and L’Owen was even more excited.  That’s so cute.

Work was crazy.  At least nobody double-parked me tonight, though.  But I did leave an hour and a half early just to get a spot.

I’m getting pretty stressed at the idea of being on campus for about 40 hours every week, and then not even being able to go home and relax at night because I’ll have homework.  I’ve gotten a headache the past two days because I am so stressed.  I just feel really depressed right now.  And I wish The Mormon lived closer to me so I’d at least be able to see him for a few minutes in the evenings.  That would relax me.  I felt a little better after talking to him earlier.  I’m just freaking out.  I’ll be fine.

I told him he’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me.  I told him that before I met him, I thought that I was happy, but since I met him, I’ve been completely ecstatic.  And it’s all true.  Sam was disgusted the other day because it’s been nearly a year now and I’m still at the giggly phase.  I can’t see ever emerging from it, though.  He’s everything that I want and he makes me so happy.

Crazy First Night of Work, Crazy Psychobrat, and Crazy Notes

Here is another example of why Psychobrat is named Psychobrat.  She was making sesame cookies the other day, and when I walked into the kitchen, there was a sheet of them about to go into the oven.  I reached over and pinched a tiny bit off the top of one, with my hands that had just been washed.

“NOT OFF THE SHEET!” Psychobrat screeched, and took the little glass bowl she had been holding in her hand and threw it into the sink, shattering it into bits.  Just thought I’d share.

Work was insane tonight, and it will only be worse for the rest of the week.  It won’t get better for a while.  There are only three of us servers, which…I don’t know how they expect that to work.  It won’t.  So hopefully that means they’ll have to get Sandra back.  But I have a headache now, and I expect with each day for the remainder of the week being ridiculously long and tiresome, I’ll have one each night, too.

Here are some more old notes from my classes.

In my earth science class, I observed about our teacher to that girl I no longer speak to because she betrayed us to The Bad Date:

“I think he looks like Bill Murray.”  He did.  He really did.  It was pretty funny.

I wrote this really sucky paper for the same class, which I shall be happily disposing of, in which I got rather low marks because my science was bad, but the prof still thought to point out:

“I must say your grammar and sentence structure is far better than many of your peers.”  That’s one of those things I said would have to go on my resume.  I need to actually write that resume.

On the same paper (it was about how scientific the movie Dante’s Peak was), I ended with the line, “And in the end, James Bond and Sarah Connor lived happily ever after.”

He replied, “Until Dante’s Peak 2, where they had to battle the Goldfinger cyborg.”

Again in the same class, we were discussing waves and tides, and how the moon affects the tide.  I wrote as a note to the same girl who later betrayed us:

“So it’s kind of like the moon is giving the Earth a big hickey.”  And a little further down, I wrote, “Moon pulls on the oceans and Earth.”  This was the actual note.  Connected to it by a dash, I wrote, “moon gives Earth hickey”  And then another actual note, the definition of spring tide:  “Sun and moon work together”.  And connected to that by a dash:  “Moonage a trois”.  I can be quite witty when I want to be.

Again from the same class.  We were doing this thing in our workbooks that involved a satellite image of Cape Cod.  And I wrote a little note on the side of the page for the prof’s benefit, because I knew he would get it:

“Cape Cod looks like a parasaurolophus.”  When he walked by, he turned his head sideways to read what I’d written, laughed, and said, “It really does!”  When I got the paper back, he had written next to it, “Raptor claw?” with an arrow drawn to a small neighboring island not shown in the picture I posted here.

I think that’s it for tonight.  I’ve got half an hour left–going to bed exactly at midnight so as to hopefully wake up in time for class tomorrow.  I’m leaving an hour and a half early to attempt to get a parking space.  Hopefully no one will double-park me tomorrow.  Fuckers.